- May 9, 2017
- In Numerology
- 6 min read
Opposites Attract – Fact or Myth?
The happiest couples never have the same character. They have the best understanding of their differences.
How much of the above statement is true? Can we really prove it? Let’s discuss this with the science called Numerology.
Numerology is the science of numbers and planets and every number stands for a planet.
1 is Sun
2 is Moon
3 is Jupiter
4 is Rahu
5 is Mercury
6 is Venus
7 is Ketu
8 is Saturn
9 is Mars
All the human beings get their characteristics from these planets. So for example someone born on 6th get their characteristics from Venus. People born on 24th are also 6 (2+4) but they get their characteristics from Moon (2) +Rahu (4) and Venus (6). Similarly different dates are ruled by different planets.
We have often heard “Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus”. This statement is actually true from Numerology point of view as well as Mars is a masculine planet whereas Venus is a feminine planet. This is one of the reasons that Number 6 and Number 9 make a perfect couple as the characteristics of these numbers are exactly opposite.
There are some more combinations of numbers in Numerology which are exactly opposites and are the best compatible in a relationship or marriage
1 and 4 (Like people born on 1st, 10th, 19th or 28th with people born on 4th, 13th, 22nd or 31st)
2 and 7
4 and 6
6 and 9
1 and 9
2 and 8
Let’s elaborate on one of the above.
Numbers 4 and 6 are exactly opposites but they are able to have a decent life together. Number 6 people are imaginative, emotional and most of their decisions are taken by emotions or by heart. Whereas Number 4 people do not get carried away with emotions and have a more practical approach towards life. Number 6 people are not big risk takers whereas Number 4 people have highly speculative tendencies. Number 6 is lucky whereas Number 4 people’s life are full of ups and downs. Number 4 and Number 6 complement each other well and fill the gaps of each other.
Most of the relationships break due to ego clashes. There are certain numbers which have less ego compared to other numbers like 4, 8 and 9. A relationship with one of these numbers is more likely to be successful compared to other numbers.
Number 2 and Number 6, both are emotional, dreamy, lucky and magnetic because of which they never do well together. At times numbers with same characteristics do well in the beginning but the end is disastrous. A relationship may be very beautiful in the beginning because of sacrifices for each other but later on priorities change and issues start cropping up. A Number 1 and 4, 4 and 6, 6 and 9 may have issues in the beginning because they are too different but later on they have a successful life.
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A Number 4 and 4, 4 and 8, 8 and 8, may be highly compatible but both these numbers are unlucky. Although they may share a good relationship with each other but they keep on struggling financially if not from a wealthy background.
On the other hand a Number 1 and 1 may do very well financially but relationship with each other is never smooth (Example Mukesh and Nita Ambani)
An interesting example of opposites is Shahrukh and Gauri Khan, Number 2 and 8. Number 2 is ruled by Moon, a benefic planet which lives on an emotional plane. On the other hand Number 8 is a malefic planet which makes its natives too practical.
Most of the relationship issues are due to ego clash or because you just want to speak and don’t want to listen. If you patiently listen to your partner and don’t react to it half of the problems gets resolved. Numerology can be handy here as it can help you in understanding your partner’s tendencies. Number 5 people are highly moody and their mind changes too often, in my view they are the most difficult to handle. Number 2 and 6 can be handled just by giving your ear to them as they want to be heard. Generally Number 1 and 3 don’t care about being heard, they are too strong and want an upper hand in any relationship.